What You Deserve
Having worked with over 20,000 people it seems most people, no matter how competent and in charge they seem, have a small something missing. A sense of deserving.
Allow me to explain.
When we are children we have no ideas of rules and social order. Everything is a joy or an exploration. That would continue to be true if something hadn’t stopped us. That something was someone bigger telling us to be quiet, slow down, pay attention. They told us this with enough strength and warning that we hurt on the inside. We made a silent promise that from then on we’ll try to do things differently.
- We’ll work a little harder for their approval.
- We’ll try not to be so noticeable.
- We’ll do better to accomplish more.
- We’ll try to be smarter.
- We’ll become so strong no one could hurt us.
In making that promise we are agreeing that to be better we could not be the child we were. We made a small hole in our soul and promised not to fill it. We never considered that we deserve better. There is a point when working with my clients they get an understanding of what’s been missing. They fill that hole, no matter how small it may be, with the joy, the love, the sense of deserving that they’ve been missing.
This is why hypnosis is so powerful. All the problems that people come to a hypnotist to solve are solved by giving them a lost feeling they thought they didn’t deserve. Whether you want to quit smoking, become more motivated to improve your health, or rid yourself of a habit.
What Hypnosis Really Is 🧠
What Hypnosis Really Is 🧠Hypnosis is not mind control or sleep. It is a natural, focused state of attention where your mind becomes more open to positive suggestions. Think of it like tuning a radio to a clear frequency. In this state, you can access deeper parts of your mind to update outdated beliefs and replace them with empowering ones. You remain fully aware and in control throughout the entire process.
The Power of Feeling Worthy 💫
Research from Stanford University shows that hypnosis activates brain regions linked to focused attention and emotional regulation. When you reconnect with your innate sense of deserving, real change follows. You stop fighting yourself. You stop believing you must earn rest, health, or happiness. Instead, you accept them as your birthright. This shift is what makes hypnosis uniquely effective for lasting transformation.
Real People, Real Results 🌱
Sarah’s Story: Quitting Smoking After 15 Years
Sarah tried patches, gum, and willpower. Nothing worked long term. During hypnosis, she revisited the moment she started smoking at 16 to feel “grown up.” She realized she no longer needed that validation. After three sessions, she quit effortlessly. Two years later, she runs 5Ks and says, “I finally feel I deserve clean lungs.”
Sarah tried patches, gum, and willpower. Nothing worked long term. During hypnosis, she revisited the moment she started smoking at 16 to feel “grown up.” She realized she no longer needed that validation. After three sessions, she quit effortlessly. Two years later, she runs 5Ks and says, “I finally feel I deserve clean lungs.”
Mark’s Turnaround: Overcoming Public Speaking Anxiety
Mark, a talented engineer, avoided promotions because presenting terrified him. Hypnosis helped him release a childhood memory of being laughed at during a school play. He reframed that experience and connected with his adult competence. Within weeks, he delivered a confident presentation to 200 colleagues and earned his long awaited promotion.
Mark, a talented engineer, avoided promotions because presenting terrified him. Hypnosis helped him release a childhood memory of being laughed at during a school play. He reframed that experience and connected with his adult competence. Within weeks, he delivered a confident presentation to 200 colleagues and earned his long awaited promotion.
Lena’s Healing: Managing Chronic Pain
Lena lived with fibromyalgia pain for a decade. Medication helped only partially. Using hypnotic techniques, she learned to calm her nervous system’s alarm signals. She now uses self hypnosis daily. Her pain levels dropped by 60 percent, and she volunteers at an animal shelter again, something she thought she’d never do.
Lena lived with fibromyalgia pain for a decade. Medication helped only partially. Using hypnotic techniques, she learned to calm her nervous system’s alarm signals. She now uses self hypnosis daily. Her pain levels dropped by 60 percent, and she volunteers at an animal shelter again, something she thought she’d never do.
Why Hypnosis Works When Other Methods Don’t ✨
Willpower operates from your conscious mind, which handles only about 5 percent of your mental activity. Habits, emotions, and self worth live in the subconscious, which runs 95 percent of your life. Hypnosis speaks directly to that deeper level. It doesn’t just change behavior. It heals the root belief that you don’t deserve better. That is why results often feel effortless and stick for life.
Getting Started With Confidence 🔑
You don’t need to be “hypnotizable.” Nearly everyone can enter a light hypnotic state, similar to daydreaming or being absorbed in a movie. To begin:
- Be open. It won’t hurt. If there are tears they will be tears of joy.
- Try a guided self hypnosis recording. You can find them here https://newhampshirehypnosis.com/audio/
- Practice daily for 10 minutes in a quiet space.
- Be patient. Lasting change unfolds gently but surely
If doing this you feel the slightest bit of relief, place your hands upon your heart and save the words “I deserve this”.
Helpful Resources 📚
- American Psychological Association on Hypnosis: https://www.apa.org/topics/hypnosis
- National Guild of Hypnotists directory: https://ngh.net
- Harvard Health on hypnosis for pain and anxiety: https://www.health.harvard.edu
You Deserve This Change 💖
That small hole inside you was never meant to stay empty. Hypnosis offers a gentle, proven path to fill it with the self worth you were born with. You don’t need to earn the right to feel good. You already have it. All you need to do is remember.
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